September 12, 2012

Quiet Heroes in Our Midst


In today’s conflicted world it is easy to get mired in the negative messages.  Despite the uncertain economy, unrelenting crime and the concern over world events, there is much to celebrate.

Peggy Sparks Rappa
 Witches Night Out 2011
Over the last couple of weeks, three people have made me stop and notice the positive.  All ignored pessimism and moved forward to make a difference, to change life for the better.   All have taken different paths, but all have created ripples.  Those ripples continue to move outward reaching places these quiet heroes have yet to imagine.

Recently my cousin, Peggy Sparks Zubry Rappa, began a simple task to look for a positive thought each morning and send it to everyone on her e-mail list.  That solitary act has brightened my morning.  I look forward to reading the short simple message she sends each day. She said that she began the project after watching a program on PBS.  The speaker talked about healing, happiness and the outside forces that affect one’s life.   Rappa decided to begin a project to create a positive spin on life. 

The task was to choose a support group from her e-mail list of at least 21 people.  Each morning she would send an email to with a good wish or thought for 21 days… or forever.   Rappa said that was hard at first to remember to get up and do it. 

She didn’t expect her small project to create ripples.  I can’t help but respond each morning with comment and reaffirmation.  I smile as I send a quick reply into the electronic divide.  And I’m not the only one.

My cousin has faced her share of challenges in life; most recently, the loss of her husband and father. She watched her mother fight a long battle with cancer and watched helplessly as her only child died within his first year of life.  She is creative, smart and talented. She cares about others.  

In her quiet way she is making a difference.  She chooses to look at the world in a positive light. Peggy Sparks Zubry Rappa (Margaret L. Sparks, when she paints) is a quiet hero in our midst.


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Robin Buoncuore is a fighter.  Some might call her a spitfire.  I call her the Cat Lady.

Robin has dedicated her life to find a way to spay and neuter as many cats as possible.  She has taken sick and abandoned cats into her home.  She nurses them back to health.  She finds homes for as many as she can.

Buoncuore recruits foster families to temporarily house cats until adoptions can be arranged.

Ten years ago, after rescuing a newborn kitten she named Maddie, Buoncuore created Maddie & Friends, Inc. a non-profit organization.

To Buoncuore, Maddie represented the tragedy of the thousands of unwanted kittens born annually to unsprayed cats.  Many of the unloved cats end up in shelters where up to 80 percent are euthanized.

Maddie & Friends offers spay and neuter clinics to reduce the number of unwanted and abandoned cats.  Before the non-profit became a reality, Buoncuore and her husband used personal funds to spay or neuter many cats in local feral colonies near their Quinton home.

Buoncuore is passionate when educating and encouraging others about the importance of spay and neuter as a humane way to reduce abused and abandoned animals. 

Maddie & Friends is an all-volunteer organization.  No one is paid. Funds are raised through donations, fundraising and grants.

Buoncuore wouldn’t consider what she does as special.  In fact she gives credit to the dedicated volunteers and friends who faithfully support the organization. Robin Buoncuore is a quiet hero in our midst.


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Dan Galey had a dream.  He and his wife, Nancy, realized how hard it was for parents of a child diagnosed with autism to find the support, resources and knowledge they needed to help their children.

Galey shared his dream with others.  He planned and strategized. From the vision a grant was written and awarded. With the support of friends and volunteers, the dream became reality in 2008 when the Salem County Center for Autism opened in Pennsville.

The dream began with a grassroots effort.  As individuals came together the dream for a center became more organized. 

The center would be able to bridge gaps for services not available from other agencies.   It would provide current information on legal services, healthcare professionals, schools and programs.   The Center would offer workshops and socialization events for parents and children.

Galey was aware of how difficult it could be to navigate State, private and healthcare organizations. 

He, and a team of dedicated supporters, created the SCCA to work as an alliance that would be staffed with qualified and experienced individuals.  Finally they could provide a one-stop approach to therapies and treatments for Autism Spectrum Disorder.

Recently the SCCA moved to its new home at the old Kurland Pharmacy site.  The larger facility will allow for expansion of services.

Like Sparks and Buoncuore, Galey does not take credit for leading the way, for making a difference.

Dan Galey is a quiet hero in our midst.

Look around… quiet heroes are everywhere.  They are creating community gardens, delivering meals to homebound seniors or working with troubled youth.  They are nurses, social workers and law enforcement officers.  How many quiet heroes do you know?


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