June 17, 2013

Life in the fast lane


 Imagine a turtle racing down a major highway.  Even at top speed the critter is likely to turn into road kill.  After several months of moving an average speed of 6.5 knots (7.5 miles per hour) I can relate to that turtle.  Two recent trips to Philadelphia and a several from New Jersey to Delaware quickly turned into an adrenaline-spiked adventure. 
Doesn’t anyone use turn signals anymore?  Cars zip in and out of traffic lanes without warning.   Speed limits, forget it!   On the way to visit the folks in Jersey, I noticed that traffic was moving along at 75 miles per hour (mph) in the slow lane.  Talk about a culture shock.  After setting the cruise control for 65 mph, a semi loomed in my rearview mirror.  I was determined not to let that intimidate me.   After a few minutes, the impatient driver did use a turn signal, moved to the left lane, and passed me before moving one vehicle ahead.   I thought, “Okay bud!  That move is sure to get you to your destination quicker.”  
The adrenaline rush began to settle when a black BMW attempted to zoom from the left lane, which was beginning to back up, into mine. Apparently BMW’s (and many other newer cars) don’t have blinkers.  When the driver noticed that my lane (right) was suddenly slowing and that there was not enough room to pull in, he zipped back to the left lane, narrowing missing a car moving forward.  I slammed the breaks and waited for the car behind me to turn my vehicle into an accordion.  Yep! The adrenaline rush was back
Was driving always this treacherous?   Is it because there are more cars on the roadways?   Are more people in a hurry because traffic is heavier?   What’s up with not using blinkers?   A guy on a cell phone driving a truck pulled out in traffic from convenience store turning left, cutting me off.  He used no blinker to indicate a turn. 
Maybe I’m just getting old?  How the heck do much older adults, whose reflexes are not so quick, get around?   Maybe it is because I’ve lived a slower life for the last nine months, or not?  Whatever the reason, today’s drivers seem to be working hard to make defensive driving more like an arena game.  Perhaps weaving in and out of traffic without signaling and riding someone’s rear to speed them up is the new normal.
I take some deep breaths and try to focus on the road.  I work to maintain a constant speed.  I watch the break lights of the cars in front of me and say a silent prayer when I’m out of heavy traffic.   
The most important thing is that I don’t beep or make gestures to the offending driver.   I learned that lesson the hard way.   Before sailing off into the sunset, a man in a beat up truck cut in front of me.  He gave me the one-fingered salute. I shook my head and mouthed idiot. The angry man turned and followed me into a parking lot where he called me a few names and threatened to pull me from the car.   Another driver who witnessed the entire event intervened and came to my aid.   I reported the incident to the police.
According to Fox News, over 40,000 people are killed in automobile accidents each year.  Many of these accidents can be prevented.  Using common sense probably gives one the most preventative means to avoid an accident. The list includes driving sober, slowing down (which also conserves gas consumption), and avoiding distractions such as cell phones and answering texts while driving.   Another word of advice to prevent an accident is not to drive when drowsy.  Pull off the road or give the wheel to someone else.  Bad weather events such as fog, heavy rain, or snow is a good time to slow down and put distance between you and the car ahead.  If you can, pull over or stay off the road entirely.
Following these tips can help keep you safe on the road, but one must also remain attentive and aware of other drivers.   These are the drivers who tailgate, refuse to signal, and pull out from stop signs or lights.  Scan ahead and keep an eye open for unexpected moves from other drivers.  Watch out for drivers talking on cell phones, or those weaving in an out of traffic.  Be extra vigilant and slow down through construction zones.  Look out for bicyclists and those on motorcycles.  Many organizations such as AARP offer defensive driving courses.  Consider taking one and get a discount off most auto insurance policies.  It’s a war zone out there on those roads.
Most importantly, wear a seatbelt to protect yourself and your loved ones in the event of an accident.  The National Highway Traffic Safety Association reports that more than half of all accident fatalities involve drivers and passengers who were not wearing seatbelts.  Seatbelts prevent one from being thrown through a windshield or around the inside of a crashing car. 
I suspect that as traffic becomes heavier, roads more congested and drivers more stressed accident ratios will increase.  I will wear my seatbelt, breathe deeply, keep my eye on the other driver, and remember that I’m not traveling 6.5 knots this summer.  As for the turtles, when I see one on a Salem County road, I pull over and help move it along.  There is no way that God’s critters were created to race with cars.


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